“You’ve got a very terrifying woman on your hands … a very not easy woman,”
Ashley explained, referring to her natural beauty and accomplishments. She added,
“Men don’t like me. Men are very, very terrified of me.”
While Ashley acknowledges that some men do like her, she considers them either unavailable or “ugo [ugly] weirdos.” She remarked,
“Because at the end of the day, I’m merely just a fantasy. I am not a real human because of the pretty and scary. So yes, I’m alone. I’m very, very, very, very single.”
She elaborated on her situation in the video caption, writing:
“Lonely life when you know your worth.”
The comments section of her TikTok video quickly filled with reactions from viewers who resonated with her sentiments. One user commented, “Convinced singles are the enlightened ones. We are the main characters living life on our own terms.” Another added, “Same… been told I’m intimidating my whole life. Men don’t even approach me cause they think I have too many options.”
A third user shared,
“Yup. They idealize you, then at the end resent and hate you for everything they loved and adored about you at the beginning because you bring out all their insecurities. Still single, but happy.” Another person wrote, “You said this perfectly.”
Many viewers related to Ashley’s experience, with comments such as
“YUP terrified. So many guys tell me they are intimidated by me,” and “Me core. Once they find out I’m a real human with feelings… it’s all over.” Another simply penned, “Facts.”
Ashley’s candid video struck a chord with many, highlighting the challenges faced by those whose looks and success can intimidate potential partners.
